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The War on Islamic Masculinity – Muslim Men, Wake Up and Lead!

O Muslim men, where is your strength? Where is your leadership? Where is your honor? The West has declared war on masculinity, and too many of you have fallen right into their trap!

They want you weak. They want you soft. They want you afraid to lead. They want you to be ashamed of being a man.

Why? Because strong, righteous Muslim men are a threat.

 • A man who leads his home with authority cannot be controlled.

 • A man who raises his sons upon Qur’an and Sunnah will build the next generation of lions.

 • A man who stands firm on Islam will never bow to Western ideologies.

The kuffar know this. That’s why they have worked day and night to destroy the Muslim man—and many of you have let them!

Muslim Men Have Become Weak and Passive!

Today, instead of being the protectors and leaders that Allah commanded, too many Muslim men have become:

 • Passive and afraid to lead their families.

 • More focused on video games, social media, and entertainment than their responsibilities.

 • Scared to speak up against feminism, fearing women more than they fear Allah.

 • Emotionally weak, seeking validation instead of standing firm on their Deen.

Where is your ghayrah (protective jealousy)? Where is your courage? Where is your sense of responsibility?

Allah says:

“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because Allah has given one more strength than the other and because they support them from their wealth.” — [Surah An-Nisa 4:34]

This is your role. Allah created you to lead. To guide. To protect. To provide. To be a man of honor and dignity.

Feminism Has Destroyed the Muslim Man!

Feminism has turned many Muslim men into:

 • Weak and submissive husbands who let their wives dictate everything.

 • Men who are scared to enforce hijab, scared to set rules, scared to say ‘No.’

 • Men who think being “kind” means tolerating disobedience and disrespect.

 • Men who are afraid of being labeled “misogynist” or “toxic” if they actually lead their homes.

Wake up! A real man leads with justice, not weakness. A real man does not fear his wife—he fears Allah!

The Prophet ﷺ was the strongest example of masculinity!

 • He was a leader, not a follower.

 • He was firm yet merciful.

 • He commanded respect and obedience, yet treated his family with love and care.

 • He was never passive or afraid to enforce the laws of Allah.

The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The best of you are those who are best to their families.” — [Tirmidhi]

Being a strong leader does NOT mean being oppressive or harsh—it means being firm, responsible, and just.

The Role of a Muslim Man – Take Back Your Authority!

O Muslim men, your role is clear. If you want to be the man that Allah created you to be, then stop following the West’s weak version of manhood and return to the way of the Salaf!

✅ LEAD YOUR FAMILY: Be the decision-maker. Set the rules. Enforce the laws of Allah in your home. Do not let your wife or children dictate how the household runs.

✅ PROTECT YOUR WOMEN: Women today are exposed to corruption at every turn—your job is to guard them, set boundaries, and keep them away from fitnah. If your wife is disobeying Allah, it is YOUR responsibility to correct her!

✅ EARN AND PROVIDE: Stop being lazy and unmotivated. A real man earns his own money, takes care of his family, and does not depend on anyone. A woman should not have to work when you are there to provide!

✅ RAISE YOUR CHILDREN UPON ISLAM: Your kids are YOUR responsibility. If they are being raised by Western schools, social media, and liberal ideologies—it is because YOU failed to teach them.

✅ BE PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY STRONG: The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, though there is good in both.” — [Muslim]

 • Train your body. Stay fit.

 • Discipline your mind. Stop being lazy.

 • Develop confidence and resilience.

Islam does not promote weak men! Be the strong, fearless, and disciplined Muslim man that Allah commands you to be!

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The Feminised Muslim Man – A Disaster for the Ummah!

The Feminised Muslim Man – A Disaster for the Ummah!

O Muslim men, understand this: When men become weak, the Ummah falls.

 • When men do not lead, women become lost.

 • When men do not enforce the laws of Allah, society becomes corrupt.

 • When men become emotional and passive, the next generation grows up weak.

This is exactly what the enemies of Islam want! They do not fear “modern Muslim men” who are soft, weak, and too scared to stand up for their Deen! They fear the men who follow the Qur’an and Sunnah without compromise!

They fear the real Muslim men who:

✔️ Speak the truth without fear of backlash.

✔️ Lead their homes with authority and wisdom.

✔️ Raise their sons to be warriors of the Deen, not weak followers of the dunya.

✔️ Defend Islam instead of apologizing for it.

Be THAT man. Be the man that the Prophet ﷺ would be proud of. Be the man that strikes fear into the hearts of the disbelievers because he is strong, firm, and unshaken in his faith.

Final Warning: Choose Your Path!

You have TWO choices:

1️⃣ Stay weak, passive, and silent—chasing comfort while your home, family, and Ummah collapse around you.

2️⃣ Stand up, take back your authority, and be the Muslim man that Allah created you to be.

“And do not weaken and do not grieve, for you will be superior if you are [true] believers.”

— [Surah Aal ‘Imran 3:139]

The Ummah does NOT need weak men. It needs leaders. Warriors. Men of Tawheed.

Stop apologising. Stop being weak. Be a man of Islam. Be a leader. Be the man that Allah commanded you to be!

Allah grant strength, wisdom, and true leadership to the men of this Ummah and protect us from the humiliation of weakness. Ameen.

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The Strength of Principles Without Losing Yourself

PRINCIPLES & BALANCE

Choose principles over selfishness but don’t forget yourself either.

Being selfish can shrink you.

Being too idealistic can drain you.

The real strength is knowing how to care about others without losing yourself in the process.

You don’t have to choose between doing what’s right and looking after yourself.

When there’s a will, there’s a way…

Having principles sounds easy…until following them actually costs you something.

Sometimes doing the right thing means walking away from people, leaving a job, changing your environment…and sometimes even keeping your distance from certain religious circles or places.

The Prophet ﷺ showed us that standing for what’s right takes courage. The earliest example from the Seerah being when Nabi ﷺ chose faith over wealth, fame and women (how many of us have sold our morals for some worldly extra…)

At the end of the day, ask yourself:

“What kind of person do I want to be proud of?”

Because living only for yourself can leave you empty.

Living only for others can leave you exhausted.

Maturity is knowing how to hold both.

Did the Prophets ever submit to other than Allah?

When the Prophet ﷺ was told to stop preaching Tawheed and the Oneness of Allah…

“The Prophet ﷺ said that even if he was offered the sun in right hand and the moon in his left hand- he would never leave the path of Allah.”

The right path isn’t always the easy path. But when your heart is firm, Allah opens a way. 🤍

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All of Mankind is from Adam and Eve

English Summary of the talk delivered by Shaykhul Islām Mufti Muhammad Taqi Usmani {Ḥāfiẓahullāh}

Tuesday 4th November 2025 at Taiyabah Masjid, Bolton UK.

In the name of Allāh, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate.

All praise is due to Allāh, the Lord of all the worlds.

Peace and blessings be upon His noble Messenger, upon his family, his companions, and upon all those who follow them with goodness until the Day of Judgement.

My respected and beloved brothers,

Assalāmu Alaykum wa Rahmatullāhi wa Barakātuh.

All praise is for Allāh — I have been coming to the United Kingdom repeatedly, and each time I come, I notice, Alhamdulillah, that our Muslim brothers here are showing progress in their efforts to preserve and strengthen their faith.

Masjids are being established, maktabs (religious schools) and madrasas are running, and every time, I see more improvement than before.

May Allāh bless all your efforts and grant you success in this world and the next.

Among all the European countries, this is perhaps the only one where Muslims have made such strong efforts to safeguard their religion and the faith of their future generations — and, to a great extent, have succeeded.

May Allāh increase you in goodness and unity, Ameen

The Central Message

All the respected people gathered here are believers and attached to the masjid and the faith.

On this blessed occasion, I wish to share a topic that is deeply important — not only for us but for the entire Muslim Ummah.

Today, Muslims number around two billion across the world.

There are 57 Muslim-majority countries.

We have immense wealth, countless resources, and our lands occupy some of the most strategic locations on earth.

We have oil, gold, and other riches — blessings like never before in history.

Yet despite this, Muslims as a community are weak, dependent, and disunited.

We depend on others for everything — in education, economy, defence, and even in our basic self-reliance.

Why is this the case?

The Prophet ﷺ already foretold this

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ once told his Companions that a time would come when other nations would invite one another to attack you just as people invite others to share in a feast spread on a dining table.

The Companions were shocked and asked,

“Will that be because we will be few in number, O Messenger of Allah?”

The Prophet ﷺ replied,

“No, rather you will be numerous — but you will be like the foam on the sea — many in number but weightless.”

That is our condition today: a vast population but without strength or direction, swept away by every current because of a lack of unity and inner power.

*Why has this happened?*

Allāh says in the Qur’ān:

“You will be the most superior, if you are true believers.” (Qur’ān 3:139)

But despite this promise, we see Muslims living in humiliation and dependency.

So what is the root cause?

A great scholar, Shaykh ul-Hind Maulana Mahmood Hasan رحمه الله, who was imprisoned by the British during their rule, said after his release that he had pondered deeply during his years in jail over the causes of Muslim decline.

He concluded that there are two main reasons:

Muslims abandoned the Qur’ān.

Not just in recitation, but also in understanding, implementing, and conveying it to others.

The four duties regarding the Qur’ān, 

recitation, understanding, practice, and propagation — have been neglected.

Muslims became divided among themselves.

Differences are not always evil, but when disagreement leads to factions, hostility, and hatred — that is tafarraqu (division), and it destroys nations.

Qur’ān on Unity

Allāh says:

وَاعْتَصِمُوا بِحَبْلِ اللَّهِ جَمِيعًا وَلَا تَفَرَّقُوا

“Hold fast, all of you, to the rope of Allāh, and do not be divided.”

(Sūrah Āl-Imran 3:103)

The Prophet ﷺ united the Companions so beautifully that Bilal RA — an Abyssinian — was respected by Arabs as their leader, and Salman al-Farsi RA — a Persian — was made commander among Arabs.

This was the blessing of Islam, which erased all divisions of race and language.

When the Muhajirun (migrants) arrived in Madinah, the Ansar opened their homes and even offered to share their wealth and families. Such was their spirit of sacrifice and brotherhood.

Once, an argument broke out between an Ansari and a Muhajir, and each called out to his group for support — “O Ansar!” and “O Muhajirun!”

When the Prophet ﷺ heard this, his face changed with anger and he said:

“Leave these calls, for they are foul. These are the slogans of ignorance.”

Whenever Muslims have fallen into disgrace, it has often been due to tribalism, nationalism, or group identity.

Nationalism and Racism

The Ottoman Empire — once a unified Muslim world — was destroyed because the Turks were told, “You are Turks; why follow the Arabs?”

And Arabs were told, “You are Arabs; why follow the Turks?”

Thus, unity was broken, and the Ummah fragmented into weak states dependent on others.

Allamah Iqbal RH expressed this beautifully:

“The idol that the new civilization has raised the highest is the idol of the homeland (nationalism); the robe it wears is the shroud of religion.”

Islam recognizes one homeland — the Ummah.

Whether Arab, Persian, African, or Indian — a Muslim is a Muslim.

Religious Division

Another cause of weakness is sectarian division — not diversity of thought itself, but hostility over it.

There have always been differences — between Hanafi, Shafi‘i, Maliki, Hanbali — in jurisprudence and practice.

But the Companions differed too, and yet none refused to pray behind another.

All four schools are based on sound scholarship; none is false.

Differences are natural. What is wrong is turning difference into enmity.

When Divisions Destroyed Muslims

During the Mongol invasion, when the armies of Hulagu Khan were at the gates of Baghdad, the scholars inside the city were busy arguing whether eating crow was halal?

The enemy destroyed Baghdad while the learned were busy debating petty issues.

As a poet said:

“Give glad tidings to the Muftis — your debates have completed the enemy’s mission.”

The Tigris River was flowing red with the blood of Muslims.

Lessons for Muslims in the West

Here in Britain, Alhamdulillah, Muslims have made efforts to preserve their faith.

But beware: do not import the divisions of Pakistan, India, or the Arab world into your Masjids here.

You face much bigger challenges — atheism, secularism, and the loss of faith among your children.

Instead of arguing over sect or language, unite to protect your next generation from disbelief and immorality.

Whether Deobandi, Barelvi, or Salafi — when it comes to shared causes like faith, family, and future — be one body.

Hadīth on Avoiding Disputes

The Prophet ﷺ said:

“I guarantee a house in the gardens of Paradise for the one who abandons argument, even when he is right.” (Abu Dawood)

Even if you are right, if continuing an argument will lead to bitterness, let it go.

Mufti saheb gives an example of his own father, a great scholar, Mufti Muhammad Shafee RH who once had full legal rights over a piece of land for a madrasa.

When someone began disputing ownership, he said, “I will not build an institution on the foundation of dispute.”

He left it all — the land, the rooms, the phone line — and started anew elsewhere.

That Madrasah later flourished far beyond the first location.

He preferred peace over contention, trusting Allah for success.

Final Advice

Muslims must revive the spirit of brotherhood.

Whoever says “La ilaha illallah” is your brother — regardless of race, language, or school of thought.

If you see a fault in your brother, correct him gently, privately, with love — not with harshness or public shaming.

As the Prophet ﷺ said:

“A believer is the mirror of another believer.”

Just as a mirror quietly shows one’s faults without spreading them, a believer should lovingly guide another.

Conclusion

Our unity is our strength.

Our divisions are our downfall. 

Let us hold fast to the Qurʾān and the Sunnah, avoid disputes, and work together to safeguard our children, our faith, and our future.

May Allāh unite our hearts, forgive our shortcomings, and make us worthy of representing His Deen with honour and sincerity. Āmīn

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Intrusive Thoughts, Doubts and Anxiety in Worship

Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

Dear Shaykh,

“I am struggling with intrusive thoughts, doubt and anxiety in worship. Am I sinful? Any advice would he helpful, JzkAllah“

Answer:

First and foremost, I want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. What you are experiencing, intrusive thoughts, doubts, and anxiety in worship, is something many sincere believers have faced, including some of the sahabah.

1️⃣ You are NOT sinful, these thoughts do not make you a disbeliever.

I know these thoughts make you anxious and distressed, but they do not define you or your Iman. In fact, feeling upset by them is a sign of faith!

📖 The Sahabah once told the Prophet ﷺ:

“We have thoughts that are so terrible we would rather be burned than speak them.” The Prophet ﷺ replied, ‘Allahu Akbar! Praise be to Allah who has reduced shaytan’s influence to mere whispers!'”

(Sahih Muslim 132)

💙 This means shaytan whispers to believers to make them doubt themselves. But these thoughts are not yours, and Allah does not hold you accountable for them.

2️⃣ Creating these thoughts are shaytan’s trick, your job is not to engage with them, just learn to ignore them.

These thoughts only become stronger when you pay attention to them. Shaytan wants you to repeat wudu, repeat shahada, repeat salat until you feel so exhausted that you stop praying. DO NOT LET HIM WIN.

📖 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Shaytan will come and say: ‘Who created this? Who created that?’ until he says, ‘Who created Allah?’ If this happens, let him seek refuge in Allah and STOP thinking about it.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 3276, Muslim 134)

✅ What to do:

– IGNORE the thoughts completely. Do NOT debate them in your head.

– Say: “A’udhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim” (I seek refuge in Allah from shaytan).

– Distract yourself immediately, shift your focus to Qur’an, dhikr, or any other task.

➡️ Remember: The less you engage with the thoughts, the weaker they become.

You might be getting these thoughts even in Ramadan despite shaytan being locked away, this is normal as shaytan lays down his traps and gets us used to listening to these thoughts even without him being here.

3️⃣ STOP repeating shahada, wudu and salat

I know it feels like you have to redo everything because of doubt, but repeating wudu and salat is exactly what shaytan wants.

📖 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“If one of you feels doubt in his wudu, let him not leave (his prayer) unless he hears a sound or smells something.” (Sahih Muslim 362)

✅ What to do:

– Do wudu ONCE, even if you have doubts, move on.

– Pray ONCE and do not repeat salat at all.

– If thoughts come, keep praying and ignore them.

➡️ If you fight the urge to repeat, it will get easier, inshaAllah.

4️⃣ Make salat a place of comfort again

I know salat has become a source of anxiety, but it is supposed to be your place of peace. Take small steps to make it easier:

– Keep your prayers simple and try to focus on one posture at a time.

– Listen to soothing Qur’an before salat to get into a peaceful mindset.

– Take deep breaths before praying to relax your mind.

📖 Allah says:

“And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humble.” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:45)

5️⃣ Seek assistance through duas & ruqyah.

📖 Allah says:

“And if an evil whisper from Shaytan reaches you, then seek refuge in Allah. Indeed, He is the All-Hearing, All-Knowing.” (Surah Al-A’raf 7:200)

✅ Duas to Recite:

– A’udhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim

– Ayatul Kursi (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:255)

– Surah Al-Falaq & Surah An-Nas (morning & evening)

– La ilaha illa Allah, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahu al-mulku wa lahu al-hamdu, wa huwa ‘ala kulli shay’in qadeer.

➡️ These will help ease your heart and push away these intrusive thoughts.

6️⃣ Sometimes, waswasah(intrusive thoughts) can be linked to anxiety or OCD, which is a condition many people face. If these thoughts are making life extremely difficult, it might help to speak to one of our therapists. There is no shame in seeking help.

💙 You are NOT sinful. You are NOT a bad Muslim.

💙 Allah is Most Merciful, and He knows your struggle.

💙 You will NOT go to Hell for thoughts you didn’t bring into your mind.

📖 Allah says:

“Do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins…”

(Surah Al-Zumar 39:53)

➡️ Keep going, my dear brother/sister. You are stronger than Shaytan, and Allah sees your effort. 🤍

🌸 May Allah grant you ease, comfort and a heart full of tranquillity. Ameen. 🤲

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Forty Lessons from Forty Years

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

To celebrate growing older, I wrote a few lessons life has taught me, alhumdu lillah.

  1. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 
  1. Life isn’t fair, but it can still be good. 
  1. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will. 
  1. You don’t have to win every argument, stay true to yourself. 
  1. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone. 
  1. Make peace with your past so it won’t mess up the present. 
  1. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 
  1. Take a deep breath every now and then. It calms the mind. 
  1. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways. 
  1. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else. 
  1. No one oversees your happiness but you. 
  1. Forgive others and forgive yourself. 
  1. What other people think of you is none of your business. 
  1. Time heals almost everything. Give time a little time. 
  1. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 
  1. Believe in miracles., Allah SWT is listening, Allah SWT is watching. 
  1. Allah SWT loves you because of who Allah is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do. 
  1. Growing old beats the alternative of dying young. 
  1. Your children get only one childhood, give them the best. 
  1. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 
  1. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you need. 
  1. The best is yet to come… be optimistic. 
  1. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 
  1. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.” 
  1. Failure is a lesson in disguise. 
  1. You’re not behind — you’re on your own timeline. 
  1. Learn to rest, not quit. 
  1. Growth often feels uncomfortable — that’s how you know it’s working. 
  1. Let go of things not meant for you. 
  1. Gratitude shifts everything. 
  1. Most people are too focused on themselves to judge you. 
  1. Your thoughts aren’t always facts. 
  1. What you focus on expands. 
  1. Confidence comes from action, not waiting. 
  1. You can be a work in progress and still be proud. 
  1. Life is 10% what happens, 90% how you respond. 
  1. Forgiveness frees you, not them. 
  1. Sometimes peace is worth more than being right. 
  1. People show you who they are — believe them. 
  1. Energy is contagious. Be mindful of who you spend time with. 

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  1. Boundaries are a form of self-respect. 
  1. You won’t always feel motivated — build discipline 
  1. Time is the most valuable currency. 
  1. Sometimes you need to slow down to move forward. 
  1. Not everyone will like you — that’s okay. 

Ismail ibn Nazir Satia (one who is in dire need of Allah’s forgiveness, mercy and pleasure)

18th Shaban 1446

16th April 2025

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12 Levels of Friendship

Did you know that in Arabic, there are 12 levels of friendship? 

For every level of friendship, there is an Arabic word to describe it. From Siddique to Khaleel, it is rare to find all 12 levels of friendship in one person.

1. Siddique (صديق) – a true friend; someone who doesn’t befriend you for an ulterior motive. The word “Siddique” is commonly translated as truth, so honesty and loyalty is at the core of this friendship.

2. 𝘼𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙨 (أنيس) – someone with whom you’re really comfortable and familiar with.

3. 𝙕𝙖𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙡 (زميل) – someone you have a nodding acquaintance with.

4. 𝙅𝙖𝙡𝙚𝙚𝙨 (جليس) – someone you’re comfortable sitting with for a period of time.

5. 𝙎𝙖𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙧 (سمير) – someone you have good conversation with them.

6. 𝙎𝙖𝙝𝙞𝙗 (صاحب) – someone who’s concerned for your well-being.

7. 𝙍𝙖𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙦 (رفيق) – someone you can depend upon.

8. 𝙆𝙝𝙖𝙡𝙚𝙚𝙡 (خليل) – an intimate friend; someone whose presence makes you happy.

9. 𝙉𝙖𝙟𝙞 (نجي) – a confidant; someone you trust deeply.

10. 𝙉𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙚𝙢 (نديم) – a drinking companion (just tea) that you might call when you’re free.

11. 𝙎𝙖𝙛𝙞 (صفي) – your best friend; someone you’ve chosen over other friends.

12. 𝙌𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙣 (قرين) – someone who’s inseparable from you; you know how they think (and vice versa).

Which ones do you have?

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Deception: Study of Shaytan.

Deception: Study of Shaytan.

And I want to share with you one of his most continuous tricks.

فَوَسْوَسَ إِلَيْهِ الشَّيْطَانُ قَالَ يَا آدَمُ هَلْ أَدُلُّكَ عَلَىٰ شَجَرَةِ الْخُلْدِ وَمُلْكٍ لَّا يَبْلَىٰ“

Then Shayṭān whispered to him; he said, ‘O Ādam, shall I direct you to the tree of eternity and possession that will not deteriorate?’” [20:120] 

You see, Iblis is a master of distorting reality. The tree that Allah had commanded them to not come near, was now being called the tree of eternity.
Iblīs will either take the goodness and make it appear as evil or take evil and make it appear as something good. In this case, Iblīs is taking something evil and making it appear as something good. The evils in society are given a positive name and as a result, we may accept it. Shayṭān will make Zina look enticing and call it making love. Iblīs makes people think about sexual freedom and not think that it is a big deal to have sex outside of marriage. We see the effects in our society: divorce, single parents raising kids, STDs, etc.


Iblīs will never remind you of these things. Iblīs deceives people into thinking things are good. He will get people to label each other. When you label someone, you can distort reality very easily. You turn people into caricatures and stereotypes and then can attack the stereotype irrespective if that is actually true of the person you are addressing. It is one of the tricks he uses most frequently.

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Calling One an Apostate

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

Respected brother,

We take note of your concern and despondency. The issue is not as you have understood it to be.

Whilst Sharῑ’ah has specified guidelines to declare one as an apostate (kāfir), Sharῑ’ah has also advised us to exercise extreme precaution in declaring a Muslim an apostate (kāfir).

Consider the following:

1-    Allah the Almighty says:

وَلَا تَقُوْلُوْا لِمَنْ أَلْقَى إِلَيْكُمُ السَّلَامَ لَسْتَ مُؤْمِنًا

Translation:

“And do not say to the one who extends greetings to you, ‘you are not a Believer’”

[Surah Nisā, verse 94]

2-    In the narration of Ṣaḥῑḥ Muslim, Ḥaḍrat ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Umar Radiyallahu Anhu narrates that the Prophet Ṣallallāhu ‘Alayhi Wasallam said:

إِذَا كَفَّرَ الرَّجُلُ أَخَاهُ فَقَدْ بَاءَ بِهَا أَحَدُهُمَا

Translation:

 

“When a man labels his [Muslim] brother an apostate, then it (apostasy) returns to one of them”

 

[Ṣaḥῑḥ Muslim, v.2, pg.18, Dār Al Qalam]

 

3-    In another narration of Ṣaḥῑḥ Muslim, the narration is found with the words:

 

أَيُّمَا امْرِئٍ قَالَ لِأَخِيهِ يَا كَافِرُ فَقَدْ بَاءَ بِهَا أَحَدُهُمَا إِنْ كَانَ كَمَا قَالَ وَإِلَّا رَجَعَتْ عَلَيْهِ

Translation:

 

“Whichever man says to his [Muslim] brother, ‘Oh disbeliever’, then it returns to one of them if he (the Muslim brother) is like how he (the speaker) has said, otherwise, it (his statement) reverts to him (the speaker)”

 

[Ṣaḥῑḥ Muslim, v.2, pg.18, Dār Al Qalam]

This attitude of maintaining extreme precaution when labelling a Muslim an apostate (kāfir) was the attitude of all of our pious predecessors – this includes the scholars of the four schools of Fiqh as well as those who did not ascribe themselves to a school of Fiqh. This was also the attitude of our elders from the ‘Ulamā of Deoband.

Consider the following:

1-    Allāmah Ibn Daqῑq Al ‘Id Al Shafi’ῑ’ Raḥimahullah (d.702 AH) writes in the commentary of the aforementioned Ḥadῑth:

وَهَذَا وَعِيْدٌ عَظِيْمٌ لِمَنْ أَكْفَرَ أَحَدًا مِّنَ الْمُسْلِمِيْنَ وَلَيْسَ كَذَلِكَ

Translation:

“This is a great warning to anyone who labels anyone from amongst the Muslim an apostate while he is [not an apostate]”

[Iḥkām Al Aḥkām Sharḥ ‘Umdah Al Aḥkām, v.2, pg. 226, Maṭba’ah Al Sunnah Al Muḥammadiyyah]

2-    Ḥāfiz Ibn ‘Abdil Barr Al Mālikῑ Raḥimahullah (d.463 AH) said:

فَالْقُرْآنُ وَالسُّنَّةُ يَنْهَيَانِ عَنْ تَفْسِيْقِ الْمُسْلِمِ وَتَكْفِيْرِهِ بِبَيَانٍ لَا إِشْكَالَ فِيْهِ

Translation:

“The Qur’ān and the Sunnah discourage – in an elaboration that does not leave any doubts – a Muslim from labelling a [fellow] Muslim a ‘transgressor’ or ‘apostate’”

[Al Tamhῑd Li Mā Fil Muwattā Minal Ma’ānῑ Wal Asānῑd, v.17, pg.315, Al Fārūq Al Ḥadῑthiyyah]

3-    Qāḍῑ ‘Iyāḍ Al Mālikῑ Raḥimahullah (d.544 AH) has recorded the statement of the great Shāfi’ῑ’ jurist, Imām Al Ḥaramayn Al Juwaynῑ Al Shāfi’ῑ’ Raḥimahullah (d.478 AH) who said:

إِدْخَالُ كَافِرٍ فِي الْمِلَّةِ أَوْ إِخْرَاجُ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْهَا عَظِيْمٌ فِي الدِّيْنِ

Translation:

“To consider a disbeliever within the fold of Islām or to take a Muslim out of it (the fold of Islām) is a severe act in religion”

[Al Shifā, pg. 473, Dār Al Ḥadῑth]

4-    Imām Al Ghazālῑ Al Shāfi’ῑ’ Raḥimahullah (d.505 AH) said:

وَالَّذِيْ يَنْبَغِيْ أَنْ يَمِيْلَ الْمَحْصَلُ إِلَيْهِ الْإِحْتِرَازَ مِنَ التَّكْفِيْرِ مَا وُجِدَ إِلَيْهِ سَبِيْلًا فَإِنَّ اسْتَبَاحَةَ الدِّمَاءِ وَالْأَمْوَالِ مِنَ الْمُصَلِّيْنَ إِلَى الْقِبْلَةِ الْمُصَرِّحِيْنَ بِقَوْلِ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللهُ مُحَمَّدٌ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ خَطَأٌ

Translation:

“What the summary should lead to is that one should refrain as much as possible from labelling a Muslim an apostate, for indeed, to consider it permissible to spill the blood and take the wealth of those who are performing Ṣalāh towards the Qiblah and are explicitly declaring that there is no one worthy of worship besides Allah and that Muḥammad is the Messenger of Allah is a mistake.

[Al Iqtiṣād Fil I’tiqād, v.1, pg.135, Dār Al Kutub Al ‘Ilmiyyah]

5-    Qāḍῑ ‘Iyāḍ Al Mālikῑ Raḥimahullah (d.544 AH) has related the view of many great scholars of the past who said:

فَإِنَّ اسْتَبَاحَةَ الْمُوَحِّدِيْنَ خَطَأٌ

Translation:

“Indeed, to consider it permissible to spill the blood of the believers is a mistake”

[Al Shifā, pg. 473, Dār Al Ḥadῑth]

6-    ‘Allāmah Ibn ‘Abidῑn Al Shāmῑ Al Ḥanafῑ Raḥimahullah (d.1252 AH) has quoted the statement of the master Ḥanafῑ jurist Al Ṣadr Al Shahiῑd AlḤanafῑ Raḥimahullah (d.556 AH) who said:

الْكُفْرُ شَيْءٌ عَظِيْمٌ فَلَا أَجْعَلُ الْمُؤْمِنَ كَافِرًا مَتَى وَجَدْتُ رِوَايَةً أَنَّهُ لَا يَكْفُرُ

Translation:

“Disbelief (apostasy) is a severe act, so I will never consider a Believer to be an apostate if I have found a view [in Sharῑ’ah] to state that he has not become an apostate”

[Sharḥ ‘Uqūd Rasm Al Muftῑ, pg.440, Dārul Bashāir Al Islāmiyyah]

7-    The erudite Ḥanafῑ jurist, ‘Allāmah Ṭāhir Al Bukhārῑ Al Ḥanafῑ Raḥimahullah (d. post 600 AH) writes:

إِذَا كَانَ فِي الْمَسْأَلَةِ وُجُوْهٌ يُوْجِبُ التَّكْفِيْرَ وَوَجْهٌ وَاحِدٌ يَمْنَعُ فَعَلَى الْمُفْتِيْ أَن يَّمِيْلَ إِلَى هَذَا الْوَجْهِ

Translation:

“If in a Mas’alah, there are plenty of reasons for labelling a Muslim an apostate, and only one reason to prevent such a label, then it is upon a Muftῑ to turn towards the one reason [that prevents such a label]”

[Khulāṣah Al Fatāwā, v.4, pg.382, Maktabah Rashῑdiyyah]

This advice has been reiterated by ‘Allāmah Burhān Al Dῑn Al Bukhārῑ Raḥimahullah (d.616 AH) [Al Muḥῑṭ Al Burhānῑ, v.7, pg.397, Idāratul Qur’ān].

8-    The great Ḥanafῑ jurist, ‘Allāmah Zayn Al Dῑn Ibn Nujaym Al Ḥanafῑ Raḥimahullah (d.970 AH) states that he had made it a habit to never issue a Fatwā in which he labels a Muslim an apostate.

He writes:

وَلَقَدْ أَلْزَمْتُ نَفْسِيْ أَنْ لَا أُفْتِيَ بِشَيْءٍ مِّنْهَا

Translation:

“Indeed, I have made it incumbent upon myself never to issue a Fatwā [of apostasy] in regards to those statements.”

[Al Baḥr Al Rā’iq, v.5, pg.125, HM Said]

9-    Ḥāfiẓ Ibn Taymiyyah Al Ḥanbalῑ Raḥimahullah (d.728 AH) writes:

فَلِهَذَا كَانَ أَهْلُ الْعِلْمِ وَالسُّنَّةِ لَا يُكَفِّرُوْنَ مَنْ خَالَفَهُمْ وَإِنْ كَانَ ذَلِكَ الْمُخَالِفُ يُكَفِّرُهُمْ

Translation:

“It is due to this reason that the people of knowledge and Sunnah do not label their opposition as apostates, even if their opposition labels them as apostates.”

[Al Istigāthah Fῑ Al Rad ‘Alal Bakrῑ, pg.252, Dār Al Minhāj]

10-  Ibn Shattā Al Dimyāṭῑ Al Shāfi’ῑ’ Raḥimahullah (d.1310 AH) writes:

يَسْلُكُ طَرِيْقَ الْإِحْتِيَاطِ فِي الْإِفْتَاءِ بِتَكْفِيْرِ أَحَدٍ فَلَا يُفْتَى بِذَلِكَ إِلَّا بَعْدَ الْفَحْصِ الشَّدِيْدِ وَالْيَقِيْنِ السَّدِيْدِ

Translation:

“He (a Muftῑ) should tread the path of caution when issuing a Fatwā declaring someone to be an apostate, thus such a Fatwā should not be issued except after extreme examination and outright conviction”

[I’ānah ‘Alā Ṭālibῑn, v.4, pg. 138, Dār Ihyā Al Kutub Al ‘Arabiyyah]

11-  Ḥāfiẓ Ibn Ḥajar Al Haytamῑ Al Shafi’ῑ’ Raḥimahullah (d.974 AH) has quoted the statement of ‘Allāmah Badr Al Dῑn Al Zarkashῑ Al Shafi’ῑ’Raḥimahullah (d.794 AH) who said:

أَنَّ مَعَنَا أَصْلًا مُحَقَّقًا هُوَ الْإِيْمَانُ فَلَا نَرْفَعُهُ إِلَّا بِيَقِيْنٍ فَلْيَتَنَبَّهْ لِهَذَا وَلِيَحْذَرْ مِمَّنْ يُبِادِرُ إِلَى التَّكْفِيْرِ فِيْ هَذِهِ الْمَسَائِلِ مِنْهَا وَمِنْهُمْ فَيُخَافُ عَلَيْهِ الْكُفْرُ لِأَنَّهُ كَفَّرَ مُسْلِمًا

Translation:

“We have an established foundation which is Īmān (faith), thus we shall not eradicate it (Īmān (faith)) [from a Muslim] except with conviction [that he has eradicated his Īmān (faith)]. So the individual from amongst us (the Shāfi’ῑ’s) and them (the Ḥanafῑs) who rushes in declaring a Muslim an apostate should be alert and cautious in this regard, for apostasy is [equally] feared for him too as he has declared a Muslim to be an apostate”

[Tuḥfah Al Muḥtāj Bi Sharḥ Al Minhāj, v.4, pg.110, Dār Al Kutub Al ‘Ilmiyyah]

12-  Mullā ‘Alῑ Al Qārῑ Al Ḥanafῑ Raḥimahullah (d.1014 AH) writes:

وَقَدْ قَالَ عُلَمَاؤُنَا إِذَا وُجِدَ تِسْعَةٌ وَّتِسْعُوْنَ وَجْهًا تُشِيْرُ إِلَى تَكْفِيْرِ مُسْلِمٍ وَوَجْهٌ وَاحِدٌ إِلَى بَقَائِهِ عَلَى إِسْلَامِهِ فَيَنْبَغِيْ لِلْمُفْتِيْ وَالْقَاضِيْ أَنْ يَعْمَلَا بِذَلِكَ الْوَجْهِ

Translation:

“Indeed, our scholars have said, ‘If there are 99 reasons that indicate towards the apostasy of a Muslim and 1 reason to indicate that he is still a Muslim, then it is appropriate for a Muftῑ and a judge to act upon that 1 reason’.”

[Sharḥ Al Shifā, v.2, pg. 499, Dār Al Kutub Al ‘Ilmiyyah]

13-  Imām Muḥammad Al Shawkānῑ Raḥimahullah (d.1250 AH) writes:

اعْلَمْ أَنَّ الْحُكْمَ عَلَى الرَّجُلِ الْمُسْلِمِ بِخُرُوْجِهِ مِنْ دِيْنِ الْإِسْلَامِ وَدُخُوْلِهِ فِي الْكُفْرِ لَا يَنْبَغِيْ لِمُسْلِمٍ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ أَن يَقْدِمَ عَلَيْهِ إَلَّا بَبُرْهَانٍ أَوْضَحَ مِنْ شَمْسِ النَّارِ

Translation:

“Know that to remove a Muslim person from the religion of Islām and into apostasy is not an appropriate thing for anyone who believes in Allah and the final day to step forward and do without a reason as clear as the light of fire

      [Al Sayl Al Jarār Al Mutadaffiq ‘Alā Ḥadāiq Al Uzhār, pg. 978, Dār Ibn Ḥazm]

14-  Muftῑ Maḥmūd Ḥasan Gangohῑ Raḥimahullah (d.1417 AH) writes:

کسی مسلم کو بغیر دلیل کے کافر کہنا بھی نہایت خطرناک ہے اس کو بھی کھیل نہ بنا لیا جائے اس سے اپنا ایمان بھی مجروح ہوتا ہے 

Translation:

“To call a Muslim an apostate without any [accepted] Shar’ῑ’ evidence [that is accepted to prove apostasy] is extremely dangerous. This should not be made into an amusement. One hurts his [own] Īmān (faith) by doing such a thing”

[Fatāwā Maḥmūdiyyah, v.2, pg.470, Dārul Iftā Jāmi’ah Fāruqiyyah]

Finally, consider two statements made by Imām Abū Ja’far Al Ṭaḥāwῑ Al Ḥanafῑ Raḥimahullah (d.321 AH) in Al ‘Aqῑdah Al Ṭaḥāwiyyah – the undisputed manual of the beliefs of the Ahl Al-Sunnah Wal Jamā’ah.

1.     He says:

 

وَنُسَمِّيْ أَهْلَ قِبْلَتِنَا “مُؤْمِنِيْنَ مُسْلِمِيْنَ” مَا دَامُوْا بِمَا جَاءَ بِهِ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مُعْتَرِفِيْنَ

 

Translation:

 

“We shall label those who pray towards our Qiblah as Mu’minῑn Muslimῑn (Muslims and Believers) as long as they maintain their belief in all that the Prophet Ṣallallāhu ‘Alayhi Wasallam bought”

 

[Al ‘Aqῑdah Al Ṭaḥāwiyyah, pg.109, Dār Al Karz]

 

2.     He says:

وَلَا يَخْرُجُ الْعَبْدُ مِنَ الْإِيْمَانِ إِلَّا بِجُحُوْدِ مَا أَدْخَلَهُ فِيْهِ

Translation:

“A Believer shall not leave the fold of Islām until he denies [one of] those [beliefs] which made him a Believer”

[Al ‘Aqῑdah Al Ṭaḥāwiyyah, pg.118, Dār Al Karz]

It is clear from the above that one cannot adopt a reckless attitude of declaring fellow Muslims let aside ‘Ulamā and Muftῑs as apostates (kuffār).

There is no reason for you to be negative and doubt your Īmān (belief) and A’māl (actions) based on such rulings. Be positive and steadfast on your Īmān (belief) and A’māl (actions). Indeed, Allah is more forgiving than He is punishing.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Mu’ādh Chati

Student Darul Iftaa
Blackburn, England, UK

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