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The Strength of Principles Without Losing Yourself

PRINCIPLES & BALANCE

Choose principles over selfishness but don’t forget yourself either.

Being selfish can shrink you.

Being too idealistic can drain you.

The real strength is knowing how to care about others without losing yourself in the process.

You don’t have to choose between doing what’s right and looking after yourself.

When there’s a will, there’s a way…

Having principles sounds easy…until following them actually costs you something.

Sometimes doing the right thing means walking away from people, leaving a job, changing your environment…and sometimes even keeping your distance from certain religious circles or places.

The Prophet ﷺ showed us that standing for what’s right takes courage. The earliest example from the Seerah being when Nabi ﷺ chose faith over wealth, fame and women (how many of us have sold our morals for some worldly extra…)

At the end of the day, ask yourself:

“What kind of person do I want to be proud of?”

Because living only for yourself can leave you empty.

Living only for others can leave you exhausted.

Maturity is knowing how to hold both.

Did the Prophets ever submit to other than Allah?

When the Prophet ﷺ was told to stop preaching Tawheed and the Oneness of Allah…

“The Prophet ﷺ said that even if he was offered the sun in right hand and the moon in his left hand- he would never leave the path of Allah.”

The right path isn’t always the easy path. But when your heart is firm, Allah opens a way. 🤍

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Qurbani – ‘Sacrifice’ or just comparing the price?

Unfortunately, Qurbani has become rather like car insurance, where one searches for the lowest quote and the cheapest price, this should not be the case.
 
We shouldn’t think of Qurbani or any obligation in Islam as a burden or tax. Rather, we should fulfil it for solely the pleasure of Allah SWT.
 
Give to the “needy” countries.
Give to the “poorest” country.
Don’t go for the lowest quote.
 
Did you know there are many Muslims who don’t eat meat all year round, only on Eid? Remember that next time you’re licking those chicken legs and nibbling on that Kobeda.
 
I feel sooner or later, we will have websites or apps like ‘gocompare’… ‘goqurbani’ that will compare charities and countries then show which are the cheapest animals, Astaghfirullah.
 
My gripe is we earn thousands of pounds and when it comes to spending for Allah SWT, we are tight fisted – La Hawla Wa La Quwwata Illa Billa.
 
The saddest part of all of this is, how deep our selfishness goes. The word ‘Udhiyyah’ (Arabic), ‘Qurbani’ (Urdu), actually means ‘sacrifice’. It really shows whether we love Allah or just love our pockets, our purses and our bank accounts.
 
Lastly, many of you reading this will be from Bangladesh/India/Pakistan. Let’s not just focus on these countries, we have many of our Muslim brothers and sisters around the world who are living in extreme poverty. I understand that some of these other countries have extortionate rates for an animal. If we all go for a £20 share in a cow from India and just want to absolve ourselves from this obligation, who will feed the Muslims in Iraq and Palestine where a large animal costs almost £2,000 (approx £300 per share). It is advised that family and friends get together and offer a ‘Nafl’ Qurbani in these countries, i.e. split the cost between them, if they can’t afford a full share. A great way of doing this is with the intention of Esale Thawab. This Eid, let’s not deprive anyone In Sha Allah, Allah soften our hearts, Ameen.
 
Please bear in mind, Qurbani comes once a year and we eat meat on a regular basis in the UK.
 
ASK YOURSELF: ARE YOU SACRIFICING OR JUST COMPARING THE PRICES?!
 
 
(Mawlana) Ismail Ibn Nazir Satia (one who is in dire need of Allah’s forgiveness, mercy and pleasure).
 
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