*Before you read, clear your mind of all negative thoughts and marital disputes to see an overlooked truth..*
A woman confesses after 17 years of marriage, that *a man* is the most beautiful creation that Allah has created and fashioned.
He sacrifices everything in his hands to give it to his sister, daughter, mother, wife, father or grandchild.
He is the one who sacrifices his youth and his health for his wife and children through working continuously, and sometimes late hours, without a single complain or grumble.
He is the one who tries to build his family’s life and his children’s future, even if that leads to him working two jobs or more.
He is the one who struggles and strives constantly, then bears the reproach of his parents and the rebuke of his boss at work.
And yet, all the blame always falls on his head.
If he goes out to entertain himself a little, he is labeled an irresponsible person and if he stays at home, he is called a lazy man.
If he scolds his children when they err, he is a brute, and if he doesn’t scold them, he is lenient.
If he prevents his wife from working, he is domineering, and if he lets her work, he is exploitative.
If he listens to his mother, he is submissive and if he listens to his wife, he is a doormat.
And yet, the father is the only person in the world who wishes for his children to become better than him in everything.
The father is the one who is pleased with his children and prays for their good even at the peak of his disappointment in them.
The father is the one who endures his children when they are small and step on his feet and even when they grow and step on his heart.
The father is the one who gives his children the best of what he owns, or all that he owns, if he cannot bring them the best in the world.
The father is the one who, if his children ask him to bring them a star from the sky, brings them the sun, the moon and the stars. In fact, he even tries to bring them the sky if he can.
If the mother carries her children for 9 months in her womb, the father carries his children in his mind and his thoughts for his entire life.
The whole world is well as long as the head of the family is well.
Respect every man or father in your life, for you will never appreciate the amount of sacrifices he makes for you.
Further, send this message to the men you know to make them happy, and also send it to the women so they may know the nature of the blessing that Allah has gifted them with.
Maria Huda
Garment For Each Other©️
